Q: I'm 13 and I have a boyfriend, but I can't tell my parents because they say I'm too young to be dating. Do I keep it a secret from them?

Jenna: Hmmm. Tough topic. I guess the first thing I would ask you to do is think about this boy that you are 'dating'. First of all, how old is he? (I'm going to assume he is 13 also!) Are you actually secretly going out alone with him to the movies or the mall? Or, is it a group of teens hanging out, allowing you and your guy to spend time together? If it's a group thing, you're not going against your parents wishes that you "don't date".

And, I'd probably agree with your parents on this one. Save the dates for the junior and senior prom and spend your tween years building those strong friendships. Chances are, this boyfriend is actually just that-a 'boy' friend, at least at this stage of your life. (If in fact he is older-- like high school-- then I would say his motives are much different than yours, and you should probably stay away from him all together.)

Otherwise, hang out, go to dances with the group, friend him on Facebook, IM him, and tell your parents the truth!!!

TTYL,

Jenna

By Jenna Perette

Jenna Perette is SSW's twentysomething blogger. Formerly Wink webzine's "voice of tweens", she now gives us a glimpse into life as a "cougar cub". Read her fun blog, The Next JennaRation!